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finding a Dominatrix.....one discovers She touches something deep inside.... that part of you that you've kept secret...the desire to have a different life.... to live in a different way ....
once inside it She begins changing your mind...the way you think is unlike how you use to.... it's true...if all you ever do ...is all you've ever done...then all you'll ever get ...is all you've ever gotten...
admit it ...think back to when things began....part of you thought it was a game....yet now you answer to a feminine name....
when you look in the mirror and see the changes.... you'll realize transformation is never a game for a Dominatrix...rather instead it is a chance to demonstrate Her power to influence....
What would a female-dominated society look like?
Households are run by matriarchs, often the grandmother, and inheritance goes from mother to daughter. The matriarch makes all major household decisions, including financial ones, and women do work often doled out to men in other cultures. Feb 11, 2021
if you are with a Mistress ....you 'are' in a Female Led Relationship....
Female-led relationships, are becoming a popular way for men and Women to explore power as partners.
These relationships are typically a relationship dynamic whereby the Woman is more dominant than her male. Some couples gain sexual gratification or enjoyment from this imbalance.
Today, FLRs have extended out of the kink world and indicate all sorts of Female-dominant partnerships. It might be that the Woman has more control in the bedroom, and in some cases, the Woman may control her partner’s finances, the clothes he wears, and the chores he does. Usually, in FLRs, there is more than simply an imbalance in authority, the woman actively makes the decisions.
....you'll note when referring to Women... from the start i was instructed by Mistress DLC to always use High caps...and with males to always use low-caps... it became another way for Her slave gurl protege to acknowledge Femme supremacy....
today's Women....bright beautiful, intelligent, confident in Their abilities......
"There are varying types of Female-led relationships, which are often broken down into four main categories based on levels of control...low control, mid-control defined control and total control.
Total control or extreme control in an FLR is where the Female will have total dominance over the male. It will usually extend to every area of life, including: how he dresses, how he spends the day and his schedule and social life.
with a Dominatrix a male is in the 4th level... total control... over time Mistress controlled how i dressed, made me check in with Her every morning to approve of how i spent my day as well as weighing in on my schedule and social life. my social life was altered with the command that i was to cease dating Women.
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the collared feminized male in service at the FemDom Ball Gala....
the male appropriately dressed as a working maid....while the superior Women converse over glasses of champagne...
https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?date=all&q=Chastity%20cage
since 2009 interest in male chastity cages has risen from minor single digits to over 100 fold by Jan 2025....
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=1566197813524637&id=922097807934644&set=a.922134957930929
Male chastity cages saw another spike in sales in 2018, marking the ninth straight year where male chastity cage sales beat out sales from the previous year. In fact, male chastity cages have been in the top five selling categories of sex toys since 2009 and the top three since 2017, and in 2018, male chastity cages became the second most widely sold sex toys, right after dildos/vibrators. More than 70% of male chastity cages are now purchased by Women with higher numbers than ever before being bought by young Women under 30 years of age.
found on Reddit ....Is chastity getting more popular
going off of what the online presence of chastity used to be, I would pretty confidently say that chastity is much more popular now than ever. Almost exactly one year ago, according to Wayback Machine, there were 57,600 subscribers to this chastity sub, and 213,000 subscribers to r/chastity....also the number of different chastity companies and designs has drastically increased in the past several years. It used to be either the CB-6000 or nothing. Now you can buy tens (hundreds?) of different designs from many different companies, plus cheaper knockoffs easily accessible on AliExpress/Amazon/etc. I think the huge expansion in the number of different product choices is probably the clearest indicator that chastity is now fairly popular.
https://www.reddit.com/r/ChastityStories/
"The inverted cage is very fiddly to get on but I love the look. My clitty is gone and all i see are my little shrunken balls. Looks almost like a cameltoe in leggings. If I can get a little quicker getting it on and off for daily cleaning it will be my 24/7."
it makes you wonder...was the ever a time when the t-gurl thought it was a game....
the tattoo and nipple-pierced breasts would indicate a Mistress was involved.... They do like to 'mark' Their property...
he doesn't know it...if it ever was one it stopped being a game awhile back.... yet he can't stop....there is a deep affection for Mistress now...even though he knows it will bring a permanent change.... estradiol always does....
it was Dominatrix Camille that brought up the possibility of it.... being Her slave i was looked on as being Her property.....to put it another way my body parts belonged to Her..... She wanted the penis gone... in its place Mistress DarkLady wanted a functioning vagina....
Mistress DarkLady's ida.... with her pussy fully functional....
oh poor ida... just as Mistress DLC knew....she just can't stop playing with it...
when i told Mistress that i found a site that had vagina gaffs...She instructed me to purchase one. when it arrived i was informed to wear it while out shopping on the following Saturday afternoon looking for a practical shoulder-strapped purse like most Women use.
i was to have it on inside my panties with a pair of tights and some slim-fitting Women's skinny-jeans i owned along with a dark muted-color top Mistress selected (that shielded my bra). I also was to wear a pair of my 1" hoop earrings.
you have to know at this point i was 'not' out...yet it was another example of how Mistress was pushing my boundaries.
DLC emailed me in the middle of my shopping excursion. She asked how it felt to have a vagina between my thighs while being at a Women's boutique with other Women there.... i was instructed to slip into one of the changing rooms and lower my sky-blue colored jeans and take a few pictures. it was early on in my training. i felt a burst of feminine energy unlike anything i had ever experienced before
that's what i mean about being 'inside my head'...
this was the purse i selected that Saturday afternoon..... grateful on my part for being helped by a sales-Woman.... as a side note Women notice everything...no detail goes unseen......the sales Lady noticed underneath my clear nail polish that i had remnants of red nail polish on the cuticles... it was during the time when every night after returning home from work i was to wear make-up and paint my finger and toes nails...(usually red)...i was to always be in bra and panties and stockings and high heels in some casual-wear....
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'so you say there are only 2 genders...i'll remember you said that.'
a Dominatrix will take one from having a binary view of sexuality.... and put it on a spectrum....
The categories used for sex and gender are socially constructed. Many people grew up with a simplistic idea of gender and sex: that there are two sexes, male and female, that “match” with two genders, man and woman.
so those in the camp that say that there are only 2 genders.....hmmmmm?
so this was ida when 'she' met Mistress Darklady.... all man huh?
Mistress told me She thought ida had one of the prettiest pussy's out of all the gurls She transformed...
ida...after her time with Mistress DLC... so lets forget about all that just 2 genders non-sense.....
In reality, neither gender nor sex is binary.
Many people use the terms “gender” and “sex” interchangeably. However, gender and sex actually refer to two separate things.
Gender is an identity — your personal sense of who you are. The term can also refer to socially constructed categories that relate to what it means to be a man or a woman.
Sex refers to biological and physiological characteristics. Your genitals, hormones, and chromosomes all relate to your sex.
Although many are taught that there are only two sexes — male and female — that isn’t true. Some people are intersex or have a difference of sexual development (DSD)
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Gender expression on the other hand.... is how you express your gender identity... this is where a Mistress comes into view.... taking him deep into 'sub-space'.... they do learn to obey and follow directions....
his thin frame will adapt well to hormones...
i think that's the Bride of Frankenstein....not the gurl protege but the pic on the wall...
once a dominatrix rocks your world ... you'll do whatever is asked of you....
and it is my experience most often like what She has done....
maybe the Domina is thinking about it....'oh he'd look adorable as a pretty blond with a cute little vagina.... cooking and cleaning ....it would be so nice to have her around the home to lick me whenever i wanted it.'
yep...slave collar....
hmmmm...looks like a dungeon setting to me....
can a gurl ever have enough lingerie?....of course not.....whether with a Dominatrix or not... t-gurls...making the world just a little more interesting.... peace, alyssa
bonus gifs: meant to put these boobie gifs in yesterday's post...
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